Hi Sam,

I was desperate for a little girl this time around, although like you I would have been happy either way, I like this ending much better

Basically I followed an ovulation prediction calendar ( I did a search and found this software that you download) If you email me I can give you the address.

Anyway I will try to explain it as best as I can. I only bd for around 3 days before O, then I stopped altogether for the rest of the month. For example, if you knew that you O'd on the 29th then BD on 25,26, 27, then stop. It takes a while longer to fall pg when you are actually trying for a girl because you aren't having sex at the perfect time of ovulation, basically the sperm have to be in there when you O so that they get to the egg first.

I hope that I have explained this well for you. If you need to know anymore email me and I will try top help you out. OPf course this method isn't fool proof and the outcome should be a healthy happy baby. But I can say that abit easier now because I'm geting my little girl \/


Take care
Trish