thread: about to start ttc number 3! it feels different...

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Feb 2010
    on a big patch of paradise.
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    After all that worry do you still think you will regret not having a third baby? I think if you still answer yes then I think you will be ok. It is always normal to start doubting ourselves and what we are capable of.

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2005
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    yep, i would regret it and i do want another baby. we have pretty much made up our minds on that but i just dont remember feeling this much anxiety or uncertanty with the other kids, (there was a bit of worry but the list wasnt as long as it is now). i wonder if that is normal for third time ttc'ers?

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Feb 2010
    on a big patch of paradise.
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    I personally never felt it. I saw it as a new exciting chapter. The baby dynamics your worried about are things that only hppen for such a short period of time in the grand scheme. Think about things like the first smile, giggle, laught. The first night they sleep through, the first steps. Watching your 2 kids teach your bubba everything.

    Think how pride you will be when you get it right again and when you rock your labour and birth. Try to add some positives into it. For all there is to worry about ther is so much to enjoy.