Thanks for your thoughts Andie.

I have decided 30 is my age cut off for having children (which is in two years time).

I have a 4 year old and a 2 year old so if we take the step and have another, I will also have three children under 5. My oldest is becoming more independent which is wonderful as I also had concerns about being able to manage with so many little ones. I did want to have my children close together so they will be good friends as well. My sister and I were close in age growing up and it was wonderful.

I suppose family dynamics are something that will change constantly as the family members get older.

After I had my second baby I had already decided three weeks after she was born that I wanted another one. I think I have starting thinking about all the practicalities too much.

Maybe I am thinking about it and just do it