Well my two are 1year 11m & 2weeks apart!! Can be trying at times but I wouldnt change it!! Rhys was quite independent when Harri was born ie. Feeding himself and happy to play by himself. He wasnt toilet trained by then but by 2.5 he was so only a couple of months of two in nappies. Harri was a easy baby tho so it didnt seem like such a nightmare like I thought it would be.