My hubby and I have been off contraceptives since March. We had a very early MC in July and AF has been very irregular since then. I have had a sore tummy, cramps, swollen sore boobs and a general 'off' feeling for about a week. I have no idea when AF is due. The first day of my last period was 10 November.

I want to take a test but I'm worried that I'm just manifesting symptoms in my mind because I want to be pregnant. I hate the disappointment and I try that stay positive. I guess I'm just looking for a little support - just a 'hang in there, it'll happen'. I feel like I'm letting down my hubby each month when we're not pregnant, even though he is amazingly supportive and lovely. I guess I'm putting off doing a test as a no is a no - not knowing for sure is a maybe.

Any advice for dealing with the 'head stuff' that comes along with trying for a baby would be really appreciated.