I, on the other hand, am of the don't POAS school of thought. I think if you are constantly testing you are constantly experiencing disappointment and that makes me feel terrible. Plus I don think it's good for my mental health as it's just so depressing. And I am happy to live in the maybe. If AF is going to arrive - she will! In the meantime I can live in the illusion for a little while.

Only you will know what is right for you. There is no correct way, just the way that helps you feel okay.