whether you test is up to you.

But can I just say please do not feel like you are letting anyone down. TTC is hard, there is a reason why they babies are miracles. Even when you time it and chart it, and analyse it, its still a long shot. So you aren't letting anyone down, its not like you can flick a switch and say yep Im pregnant. (cause so many would do that if it were possible)

I say buy a test, a reliable test, a test that tests early. But don't test as soon as you get home. Wait until you feel like you are ready to get the results, then do it.