I am no 'TTC' expert (just went off the pill a little under a month a go- so completely new to this!) but I really wouldn't go as far as saying that you're infertile..
In my short experience I can say that this time can be really confusing, especially if it's a new chapter in your life. I can say that this is all new to me, so my sense are on full alert and if I feel something Im like "oh crap I must be pregnant" when I am probably not. Actually, I've been cramping and feeling all symptoms for over a week now but no AF so don't get me started there.
I understand your frustrations though, there rarely is an easy answer though! Our bodys, and TTC can be too confusing!! We don't really have control over the here & now and what's going on with our bodies, but we do have control over our mindset and attitude. How about trying your very best not to think about it? Shove it in the back of your mind for now! That's what I'm trying to do.. because this anxiety is making me feel even worse!
Sorry you're feeling down though Ciara, try to make time to do some nice things for yourself.. like take a bath or read a nice book
Stress can disrupt your cycles...if this is something that's been worrying you or consuming all your thoughts (which it sounds as if it has ), that can definitely be enough to disrupt your cycle and stop AF. That's part of the reason why ttc is such a roller coaster, as it's a vicious cycle.
Have you seen a doctor? Maybe a check up to see what your hormones are doing and whether you are O'ing. And to find a cause of the pain in your cervix.
Be patient and not so hard on yourself too. TTC can really mess with you. x
I'm sorry you're having such as stressful time. Perhaps it's time for a trip to the doctor to get a blood test to either see if you are UTD or if they can figure out what's going on? I've heard some people say they didnt get a BFP on a urine test until they were a fair way into their pregnancy.....
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