Hi Ciara,

I am no 'TTC' expert (just went off the pill a little under a month a go- so completely new to this!) but I really wouldn't go as far as saying that you're infertile..

In my short experience I can say that this time can be really confusing, especially if it's a new chapter in your life. I can say that this is all new to me, so my sense are on full alert and if I feel something Im like "oh crap I must be pregnant" when I am probably not. Actually, I've been cramping and feeling all symptoms for over a week now but no AF so don't get me started there.

I understand your frustrations though, there rarely is an easy answer though! Our bodys, and TTC can be too confusing!! We don't really have control over the here & now and what's going on with our bodies, but we do have control over our mindset and attitude. How about trying your very best not to think about it? Shove it in the back of your mind for now! That's what I'm trying to do.. because this anxiety is making me feel even worse!

Sorry you're feeling down though Ciara, try to make time to do some nice things for yourself.. like take a bath or read a nice book