Hi Lolly. I am new here and plan to TTC in January. I have been going through a lot of these issues recently with my doctor as I have lupus. I completely support what Lucy has mentioned.

I was very worried about the increased risk of miscarriage and also having to travel to see a specalist OB (I live in the country). But it turns out I was worrying for nothing!
My lupus specialist advised me that he hasn't found that women with lupus have any trouble getting pregnant (which I was very glad to hear!). I have been in remission for about 6 years and do not have any kidney/renal damage (which can occur in people with lupus), so my specialist has given me the all clear to see any obstetrician I like and said that it was highly unlikely that I would have any problems \/

So don't worry too much, stress would probably interfere with TTC more