Having a baby needs to be a joint decision otherwise he may end up resenting her if she coerces him into it. I think it is fantastic that he wants to secure their future financially before starting a family. It is a very mature decision he has made.
We made the same decision a few years back when we toyed with the idea of having kids and am happy to say that by sacrificing a few years, it now means that I wont need to work once we have kids and can concentrate on being a SAHM.
They are both still very young so I hope she sees the sense in this .... I know it is hard when you have your heart set on having babies!
sounds like me. I'm 19 and my fiance is 26 and even though we're gettingmarried in a couple months he keeps himmmming and hawwwing about whether or not we should start TTC. My whole life the only thing I've ever wanted is to be a mother, and growing up that was 'my thing' lol I'd go to friends houses and end up following their moms around if they had younger brothers or sisters....sorry, rambling.
I don't know what to tell her to do, but if she figures it out, get her to tell me =)
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