Having a baby needs to be a joint decision otherwise he may end up resenting her if she coerces him into it. I think it is fantastic that he wants to secure their future financially before starting a family. It is a very mature decision he has made.

We made the same decision a few years back when we toyed with the idea of having kids and am happy to say that by sacrificing a few years, it now means that I wont need to work once we have kids and can concentrate on being a SAHM.

They are both still very young so I hope she sees the sense in this .... I know it is hard when you have your heart set on having babies!