my df won't get checked. He thinks that if it's meant to happen it'll happen - he's one of those non-medical people. Even wants a home birth when we do finally conceive (although I've talked him out of that one!) so I kind of hope it's me if it's either of us because I'm willing to move heaven and earth to fix the problem!! I've got him on zinc so I'm hoping that that'll help him if he needs it. Thank you for your advice. It's so difficult getting that one line every month...