Hi Guys,
Yep, out of interest I did a chart search ( I do have a life by the way) on fertility friend and found most successful cycles seem to have O day coincide with BD the night before.
I always do the pillow trick, I wait for at least an hour before getting up after bd. Still you move around all day doing your normal thing whereas at night you are pretty still, I think the sperm must be happier with that.
My Dh's hours mean AM is much better for us but I prefer night so I can drift off to sleep and jump up in the morning. Oh well......