hey guys AF has almost left the building.
i don't think i have been so happy since my DD was born. i haven't spoken to my doc yet, but feel sure he'll say theirs nothing stopping us continuing our TTC.

amster, has your doc done any hormone levels to see if he/she can pinpoint where in your cycle you are? if you get progesterone (and FSH, oestrogen, and LH) you can tell if ov has happened yet. thats how my doc found out that i most likely had a blockage, my prog was high (79), and he said "well you should get AF in 14 days, come back if you don't". well i went back when AF didn't show had another prog (2) that should have kicked off AF. it didn't thats how he knew there was a problem.
this gave me an absolute time frame rather than just "hanging".
your doc can also proscribe something if you haven't ov to bring on AF (i think it is progesterone), so you can hopefully kick start another cyle. but this wont tell you whats causing this delay, and you may endup here again.