BFN but no AF!!!??

[Amsta]

ok.. soo i think ive been rather pacient.. i had the first day of my period 3rd sept.. bd like crazy.. due for AF 30 Sept.. now its 3 Oct and no AF... tried a few different HPT and got BFN continually including today..

any one else ever had this prob and ended up positive?

i have symptoms but they could be AF symstoms.. and i am sooooo frustrated.. over the negative bit now i just want my AF so i can move on to the TTC bit again! hehehehehe

[Amaunet]

Hi - I am in the same boat as you!!! I'm on CD 37!!!! and only BFNs - so frustrating! Im pretty sure i'm not UTD (we didn't try very hard this cycle as i had the flu) I have some strange and very mild cramping but nothing else that tells me i'm pg or that AF is coming!

As encouragement - there are people who don't get BFPs via POAS (my mum never did with me!)I guess if AF doesn't show up soon visit the docs for a blood test!

Good Luck


Kylie

[Kristin27]

Unfortunately this is all a big waiting game.... very frustrating!

After going off the pill my body went a bit crazy and my first cycle was 47 days or so. I got my BFP the next cycle which was shorter.

Controlfreak the month we concieved DD, DH was really sick with the flu and we hardly BD at all so I didn't think I could be pg, but I was! It only takes one time!


Amsta, have you been TTC long? If you've been on the pill it can take a while for your body to get back to normal, have you been charting??

[Amaunet]

UPDATE: Well its CD 40 and still no AF and a BFN with a Crystal Clear POAS. I have no idea what my body is doing. In my only other long cycle in 9 months I had terrible pains and backache etc and only got to 34 days! I'm going CRAZY!

[**Helen**]

How are you all going?

I really feel for you all. I had this happen before conceiving my DD. I went 3 mths without AF, but had BFN's. The dr was about to do some testing, when wham the worst AF I have ever had got me. It was long and yucky, but next month I fell preg.

All the best ladies, here's hoping they are false negatives. I think a blood test would be the best bet, as I have heard of BFP's from blood but not pee.

[Mad Scientist]

hi everyone,

with this pregnancy AF was three weeks late before I got a BFP. I went for a blood test when it was 2 weeks late and that was BFN along with the HPT. A week later when AF still hadn't come I POAS and it was faint positive so went for another BT and it was positive. Talk about confusing. I was pretty sure we weren't pg because we hadn't tried very often in this cycle but like Kristin said, it only takes once!! Hehehe. I really hope you get that BFP I was at the same point as you Amsta, just wanting AF to come so we could try again!