thread: BFN but no AF!!!??

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Somewhere between asleep and awake
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    hi everyone,

    with this pregnancy AF was three weeks late before I got a BFP. I went for a blood test when it was 2 weeks late and that was BFN along with the HPT. A week later when AF still hadn't come I POAS and it was faint positive so went for another BT and it was positive. Talk about confusing. I was pretty sure we weren't pg because we hadn't tried very often in this cycle but like Kristin said, it only takes once!! Hehehe. I really hope you get that BFP I was at the same point as you Amsta, just wanting AF to come so we could try again!

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Brisbane
    118

    Hi all.. yes i have been on the pill but off for three months before trying this month.. this is the first month of trying so i am very confident that the symptoms that im feeling are all due to having an over due period.

    thank you all for your stories it is soo great to be able to talk to someone.. my DH has gown up in a family of boys.. and i dont want to talk to my friends until we are UTD..

    NIk you have given my a huge amount of confidence.. although i wont be upset if im not as there are plenty of other months to try but wishing id just get my AF so i can try hehe..

    still tired.. no AF.. bright Urine.. and pulls in bellie every now and then.. also over the weekend every once in a blue moon i would get what felt like pins and needles on the inside of my breasts pointing outwards.. i have never had that b4 and i dont have sore breasts.. the body really is an amazing things isnt it! i did a test yesterday morning.. and still neg.

    i would b 5wks now.. if i were but im one week over due today.. i dont think it is needed to go to the dr yet.. but if i dont get my AF in the next 2 weeks i will defo go.. (dont really want to be told im over reacting)

    Nik congadulations on your 13 wks!

    and control freak have you had symptoms? or any look of having a BFP??

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    374

    Amsta do you think it's possible you haven't ovulated yet this cycle? Perhaps you should keep BDing until you get AF or your BFP? That way you know you have given it a real chance!

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Brisbane
    118

    hey there kirsten.. im thinking that i did but then i thought i had ovulated 3 days b4 my AF was due.. so we BD.. im confused as to if i have or not.. (it was uncooked egg white looking CM)...

    could i be Ovulating on day 25?

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    374

    You could be ovulating this late if you're cycle is still working itself out after coming off the pill? That happened to me, I ovulated on about CD 30 or so when I was waiting for AF. That's why I suggest keep at it until you get AF or your BFP!

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Brisbane
    118

    hey there kirstin thanks heaps for the advise.. as i said i went off it three months ago.. and i thort ovulating was when ur cm is like clear egg white..

    to be honest i have only tried this month and i feel sexed out already!!! i love sex but hate the purpose etc..

    but yeh when i did get that we had sex that day.. so maybe thats why i havent got it.. i might get a test tonight and have a go tomorrow.. and just continue Belly Dancing!

    ihow long did it take after u came off the pill to fall?

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Country Victoria
    1,991

    Hi There!

    Although it is so soon don't rule out the possibility of being pg either... with DD I went off the pill, got my period once then I was pg. I also had alot of strange am I aren't I with the HPT until one day there it was a dark BFP. We were not charting or anything, I had no idea about the whole ovulationg thing when we tried for DD, we were just doing the BD and hoping for the best, and may I say we did not do it that often, just must have been the right time!

    Good Luck.

    Deanne.