Unfortunately this is all a big waiting game.... very frustrating!
After going off the pill my body went a bit crazy and my first cycle was 47 days or so. I got my BFP the next cycle which was shorter.
Controlfreak the month we concieved DD, DH was really sick with the flu and we hardly BD at all so I didn't think I could be pg, but I was! It only takes one time!
Amsta, have you been TTC long? If you've been on the pill it can take a while for your body to get back to normal, have you been charting??
UPDATE: Well its CD 40 and still no AF and a BFN with a Crystal Clear POAS. I have no idea what my body is doing. In my only other long cycle in 9 months I had terrible pains and backache etc and only got to 34 days! I'm going CRAZY!
I really feel for you all. I had this happen before conceiving my DD. I went 3 mths without AF, but had BFN's. The dr was about to do some testing, when wham the worst AF I have ever had got me. It was long and yucky, but next month I fell preg.
All the best ladies, here's hoping they are false negatives. I think a blood test would be the best bet, as I have heard of BFP's from blood but not pee.
with this pregnancy AF was three weeks late before I got a BFP. I went for a blood test when it was 2 weeks late and that was BFN along with the HPT. A week later when AF still hadn't come I POAS and it was faint positive so went for another BT and it was positive. Talk about confusing. I was pretty sure we weren't pg because we hadn't tried very often in this cycle but like Kristin said, it only takes once!! Hehehe. I really hope you get that BFP I was at the same point as you Amsta, just wanting AF to come so we could try again!
Hi all.. yes i have been on the pill but off for three months before trying this month.. this is the first month of trying so i am very confident that the symptoms that im feeling are all due to having an over due period.
thank you all for your stories it is soo great to be able to talk to someone.. my DH has gown up in a family of boys.. and i dont want to talk to my friends until we are UTD..
NIk you have given my a huge amount of confidence.. although i wont be upset if im not as there are plenty of other months to try but wishing id just get my AF so i can try hehe..
still tired.. no AF.. bright Urine.. and pulls in bellie every now and then.. also over the weekend every once in a blue moon i would get what felt like pins and needles on the inside of my breasts pointing outwards.. i have never had that b4 and i dont have sore breasts.. the body really is an amazing things isnt it! i did a test yesterday morning.. and still neg.
i would b 5wks now.. if i were but im one week over due today.. i dont think it is needed to go to the dr yet.. but if i dont get my AF in the next 2 weeks i will defo go.. (dont really want to be told im over reacting)
Nik congadulations on your 13 wks!
and control freak have you had symptoms? or any look of having a BFP??
Amsta do you think it's possible you haven't ovulated yet this cycle? Perhaps you should keep BDing until you get AF or your BFP? That way you know you have given it a real chance!
hey there kirsten.. im thinking that i did but then i thought i had ovulated 3 days b4 my AF was due.. so we BD.. im confused as to if i have or not.. (it was uncooked egg white looking CM)...
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I was at the same point as you Amsta, just wanting AF to come so we could try again!
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