there are only 3 people who know we are ttc. and one of them is watching me like a hawk all the time. it gets frustrating when she keeps asking ... so, are you pregnant yet?..... we have been ttc for 11 months now and its possible it may not happen at all. I wish i never told her. she was standing next to me one time when i turned down a glass of wine and i never heard the end of it all night.

the other two who know are both great cos they are ttc as well and have been for a long time. they are very sympathetic. sometimes its just easier to keep it to yourself and announce it when the bub is safe and well and growing nicely in your belly.