Hi Ladies, I am a mum of 2 beautiful boys DS1 4 and DS2 2. I would love love love to have another baby but DH will not have a bar of it!

We have tried to talk about it but we end up in an argument, i dont know what to say or do that could change his mind. I have been forced to suffer in silence and leave the ball in his court. I have promised not to bring it up, hint or mention anything again and if we were to have another baby it would be by his own suggestion. Basically its never gunna happen! and it consumes my every thought.

He has said that if we could be gauranteed we would have a girl he would be willing because we have 2 boys and he dosnt want another boy.

I feel lost and kinda denied i suppose. I have PCOS and im lucky to have the children i have but i have wanted 3 since i was a kid.

Should i sit back and give in to only having 2 children or should i do something to try to change his mind? if so what?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks Ladies