I had never wanted kids to start with. DS1 was a surprise which in the end turned out to be a nice one .
I then decided I wanted another one and got pretty clucky before having DS2.
Now I'm not sure. I feel pretty done in many ways but I still like squdgy little tiny babies .

Wow Mildez, congratulations on your surprise 5th baby. I hope it's going well for you both the pregnancy and adjusting to the surprise.