Complicated Situation - Advice Needed

[Sunny Love]

He would prefer that the father didnt have anything to do with the kid.

I have waited 11yrs for this nice guy to tell me he likes me.. I dont think I can give up on it now. Im almost in tears just thinking about it.

Maybe I should just risk waiting. sigh. Its all to hard right now

..... and you're 23 years old now? I don't know what to say.
Maybe you should just take each day as it comes in terms of 'relationships', 'boyfriends' and 'men'. Busy yourself with your son for now. As far as the doctors telling you 'do it now' etc etc, I would be cautious and perhaps seek another opinion. I don't understand how they could actively encourage you with those statements under current medico-legal policy.
Im with the other girls, the ex gf won't go away, and why should she really? She is having his child?

All the best in your future