My DH said once (and only once because he KNOWS what is good for him ) that he felt like a sperm donor. I admit it has now been close to 4 years of TTC (with some *hiccups* along the way) but to get through the difficult times of ovulation I made a deal. We make sure that we don't just DTD around ovulation. I make sure that it is frequent throughout the cycle to show that I really do enjoy it with him all the time (even when it is just for fun) and that I don't just want him for his sperm.

We also had a long chat where he was reminded that he wants a baby just as much as I do and to get that there are certain *requirements*. Since Caitlyn there has not been a peep of complaint because he REALLY wants a baby to bring home.