Chi-Chi, not allowed to access sperm bank/donor insemination in Vic if you are a single woman, you must be in a defacto relationship or married. And if you aren't then you must be technically infertile...

Google lawreform in Victoria, assisted reproduction and adoption - should the criteria be changed? Or email me and I will give you the link and info.

As far as I am aware, you can still use "non-traditional" methods in VIC ie turkey baster/syringe, but must be fresh sperm (not more than 2 hours old) and still warm. Best results are with syringe!

NSW law is different - many Victorian lesbian couples go to NSW to access IVF/ART.

Good luck! I did mention lending you my DH....