Hi belle,
it's awful feeling pressured to BD when you don't even feel like doing it huh.... I have been there.... i sympathise.

My advice to you? Just BD when you feel like it and try not to think too much about when you 'may' be ovulating (are you charting? taking your temp? that helped me) putting too much pressure on yourselves will only increase your stress levels and that certainly won't help with conceiving. I charted/temped for most cycles but sometimes when it got too much i stopped charting to have a break.....that helped too.... I think at the end of the day we will conceive when its the right time. Sometimes we can only control so much if that makes sense.... what is meant to be will be kinda thing...

TBH, each month DH and I would BD at the right times and started getting so upset about it it was stressing me out (and sometimes DH too) so by the 8th cycle, we just said "whatever" and i was so sick of trying !!! i was tired of it all.... exhausted from being stressed about it if that makes sense and we just BD whenever and I fell pregnant. When i least expected

I sure hope it happens soon for you and please don't give up it WILL happen