Thanks Renstar. I try not to stress, but there is so much pressure around us... everyone's hinting that I'm not getting any younger I feel like I just have to get pregnant soon!

I am charting, but that only tells me when I have already ovulated (my cycles are not regular so I can't predict when I will - there is a 3 week "iffy" window ). And when I realise I have ovulated I stress again because I have missed the boat yet again! If I do suspect I may be fertile, DH is not in the mood Don't know what to do. I'm afraid if I don't chart and leave it to chance, I may never get there IYKWIM.