I told my Mum that we were TTC and she has always wanted grandchildren. Every second time she phones up she says 'are you pregnant yet'. It makes it really hard, she is just trying to have a joke but doesn't realise that it hurts and is frustrating, especially just after AF has arrived (like your not down enough already). Then I have my cousin with three children phoning up saying "I hear your trying to start a family" just to make you feel like a complet looser.

If I did it again I would never tell anyone I was TTC - it puts too much pressure on you.