For me with #1 relaxing wasn't going to cut it! My secret to getting ds involved a fertility specialist and keyhole surgery (lap)! (Even though my endo was so minimal the fs said it wasn't affecting my fertility, after it was gone -> bfp!)

Luckily my first pregnancy seemed to give my body the shake up it needed, and to get #2 the formula was
1) EPO and lots of water
2) dtd every day for at least 4 days
3) opks
4) lying still for as long as I could post-dtd

Goodluck CBG, I hope you get your bfp really soon! xx