Hi Kiwi, I am sorry you are having a tough time TTC.

You say she is a close friend. Could you consider telling her you are having difficulty TTC and while you are very happy for her good news, you are not in the best place to be a confident about her pg right now. Perhaps point out it isn't personal, it is about you trying to cope with your situation right now.

I know it is hard when others seemingly fall pg all around you. There is a thread about how family and friends can help support those TTC for a length of time. I will hunt around for it for you in case you are interested. Here it is http://forums.bellybelly.com.au/foru...-ltttcers.html