thank you so much. i had a blood test about 2 months ago and everything was normal. so will see what GP says Tuesday. this is all new tome. I have a 6 year old son from my first marriage and i had him when i was 22. I went off the pill after getting married and fell 8 weeks later i had not one complication.......thank god and he was a 9 pound baby which is huge for me as i am only 58kg. so i had to have a c section after 15 hours of labiur and him crowning but his shoulders would fit.......ouch!!!!! so all this is very new to me and it does upset me as we would like to get married next year and cant set a date as i have no idea when i will be pregnant. this is out 7th month trying (i think) I know my DP would love a child of his own so i really am getting worried and frustrated. my mum took 8 years to have me. i thought it would be a breeze 2nd time around. thank you. and good luck to you.