Clare,
I am sorry :hugs: I imagine the conflict you are feeling. HOwever, I really think you are right. Get those folate tabs happening and being utilised by your body and begin the next journey feeling really confident.

About cycles: After my March angel my LP became quite short. It was only ever about 11 days and I had an early loss between my March angel and Eggbert. My obs popped me on Clomid to lengthen my LP and I conceived that first cycle.

I will go straight back on clomid after I get my period (cd2) for this reason. I am 39 and I have lost five babies - I haven't got a lot of time to just let it sort itself out (which it almost surely would). After my other two late losses I conceived only a few months after them so it really didn't take too long - though 5 months feels like a long time when you are living it...

Clare - I know you are on increased folate. It is a really good idea to take a b12 and a b6 supplement alongside the folate. You will see that many folic acid supplements have these two vitamins added. They work together to help improve the body's ability to use the folic acid... I am not sure if you have been given this information...

About high temps - I haven't temped since ttc my second child. I am up and down at night and up early with my kids - it wouldn't be accurate for me and doesn't fit my lifestyle. So I am not much help with that I am sorry. I am a bit of a fan of opk's though they have really helped me.

I hope you are okay...