Lol.. If she's a gossip don't tell her yet. If she lives too far and you don't see her often then tell her over the phone. As long as she is hearing it from you and not finding it out from someone else, it's ok. Good luck Waiting til 12wks and 16wks! Wow, There is no way i could wait that long! I waited a week to tell my Mum and that nearly killed me lol!