I understand how you are feeling too! I have been so beyond clucky for months now - we have talked about it a few times but no definite plans are ever made.
My plan is to sit down with my DP and make a 5 year plan together - that way I can show him that the sooner the better time wise. That way you can plan the travel and everything else too - and you both know where you are heading and when.
It is just so frustrating to want to take that step when you can't - hang in there though I hope he comes around soon!!
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