Thanks Renstar & JoJoB1,
It's just such a huge thing deciding on when is the right time!! I started my business when I was 19 and over and over I got "oh but you're so young to start a business" from everyone, and it used to drive me nuts, so now it makes me think it will be the same when we have a baby! Anyway i do agree, it's when you feel ready. thanks for your advice