personally, if it wasn't a serious relationship, i wouldn't tell. when i was 20 i had a 1-night stand with a friend and got pregnant. due to a lot of factors, including a bacterial blood infection, i had a termination and never told him. he went on to have a child with someone else a year later, so i was glad i'd never mentioned it.

ultimately, it's up to you but if there was no chance of the baby surviving, and it wasn't a serious relationship, i wouldn't tell.

are you ok, tho?