Sorry my computer doesn't allow me to write my message all at once so its going to be in pieces. I am really sorry you are going through this and you haven't been blessed with a baby yet. It really is the pits isn't it? It seems so unfair that something most people achieve with ease doesn't happen for some of us despite all the trying, tests etc.

If your partners sperm isn't of such a quality that fetilization rates are reduced then ICSI maybe neccessary (sort of an added procedure during IVF where they pick a good looking sperm and inject it directly into the egg instead of placing heaps of sperm in the dish with the egg and allowing fertilization to occur that way)

Just for something to compare your partners sperm to my DH count was 59. He had 79% abnormal forms so I am assuming 21% were normal. 35% were motile and swimming quickly (they like 50%) and another 5% were swimming but the rest were not motile (60%) I have still managed to get pregnant 3times in 3years however have had 2ectopics and 1m/c. Since my tube was removed I haven't been pregnant since (coming up 1year) so its obviously a combination of us both I guess. DH has been on a diet to improve his sperm and hopefully when he has his next test next month there is some improvement.