its been a few months now and Im starting to wonder

[Mum2Romone]

Whats going on with my body

We've been ttc for a few months now and nothing

I mean its been 5 months since we really started talking about it and "ttc" Anyone else in the same boat?

We have one son who is 19 months old now so I know we can have a baby.
Im just wondering why its not happening as easily as we thought

[Ahurani]

Im sorry its just not happening I know how you feel

I just read the thread on the breastfeeding. Maybe its that? How long did it take to ttc your son? how is your af?

[Mum2Romone]

We fell pregnant with our son by suprise although we werent using any contraception for about 12 months beforehand. We werent exactly trying though.

my AF returned when i was 8 months Post partum and its been pretty regular ever since. Although I havent been tracking or temping yet
i just thought it would happen by itself
And now its starting to bug me

And to make things worse everyone around me is having babies or falling pregnant ands asking me when we are going to have another one..... Just tonight my brother kept insisting that he knew i was pregnant(which im not) and was mucking around (hes 22) its so frustrating atm

[RhiChiChi]

Probably be a good idea to start temping, you may be Oing earlier or later than you think and that is why you are not falling pg. I do think it is a bit concerning that you wern't on any contraception for 12 mths and even though you wern't really ttc you didn't fall pg sooner- you may be having anovulatory cycles (where you don't release an egg) and just happened to 'catch' it the right time and fell pg with your DS. GL

[peachy]

If it makes you feel better Mum2Romone (probably won't actually) I have now been off the pill for 8 months and nothing here either. I have a 22 mth old son and want to have another one. I am totally frustrated and upset and over it. I honestly didn't think that it would take this long either. Everyone around me too seems to be falling pg in like no time and here I am...still waiting. Guess our time will come but that's still not comforting... Oh well... guess we just have to get back on that horse this month...

I keep telling myself that as about 80% fall pg in the first year...surely my odds are increasing..they have to be!!

[Mum2Romone]

Thanks ladies, Chin up ! It will happen when its supposed to I guess !