hey, i feel the same as you don't worry, but if i can get a rough idea of when i o then it will be better for us to know when to do bd either side of the day. in all fairness i'm not sure it will be that 'romantic' but what can you do. i figured it's easy to chart cm and not gross at all!if nothing happens for a while after ttc then i will start with temps.
i saw the dr. last week and she said the best thing to is not worry or you won't o at all!