just wanting to be utd again

[Anila]

why do that for we will just DTD and it will happen one day there is no rush.

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thats was how my hubby was, dont worry, i found that out the hard way, i worried to much.

[~Serenity~]

i think with guys if its no yet reality and doesnt really effect them they aren't phased well that's with mine anyways but as soon as its official then they will pay more attention

[kawazuki]

yeh i guess.
its just so hard. i need to know for sure thsi si what he really wants. which im 99% sure it is from teh way he acts but then he says dont worry about it just DTD and it will happen.

he is confusing lol men are confusing..


he just said then as i am typing this. yeh we are trying but dont feel pressured to make it happen tomorrow.
he said it dont matter what we do it will happen when it does

[Anila]

He sounds so much like my hubby.

[Papillon]

Just relax mate and go with it.... least he is happy to DTD and happy for it to happen.. MEN just dont like all the ooha that goes along with trying somtimes! lol

[~Serenity~]

maybe hes just kinda worried if it doesnt hapen.....at least if theres a "wait and see" attitude he wont feel bad otherwise he may feel like hes letting you down since you want it so much..

maybe just talk to him and find out these things ...my hubby like that to theyre a hard nut to crack...the male species

[~Serenity~]

yes thats true atleast hes happy to DTD with my last i had a left over O test so decided to try as hadnt had AF since my DD and it was + so i was like i will give it a go and didnt tell him coz i was sure it wouldnt work and of course they were the only few days in history he wasnt in the mood

[Anila]

Well ladies i wanted to wish you all a happy new year and thank you all for your support during my vent about wanting to be utd.
As some may know from the tww thread, af arrived yesterday and in full force, so no baby for me this month, but starting this thread really helped give me clarity on a few things.....
1- I really do wish to continue my journey of mother hood, and have another baby.
2- My hubby is not as confusing as i had originally thought, he was not on a power play, but like was suggested, was merly trying to protect me from obsessing over 1 or 2 lines, ( which by the way, i did very dramaticly).
3- We are ttc, even though hubby denied it so often and then did the complete 180 in the bedroom, he has now admitted that we are ttc, (and i could be wrong, but i think he may have been a little disapointed with the arrival of af).

So the saga continues, but in a different way, this thread was about me wanting to be utd and my hubby saying not yet, and giving me mixed messages in the bedroom.
Now i know 100% that we are ttc, i really want to be utd..........
So keep an eye out in the announcements ladies.

[Papillon]

This kinda feels like we are breaking up Lisa boohoo


lol

Hun, it has been a pleasure and so much fun riding this with you.... i cant wait to see your announcement!!!! and i am so sorry for saying your hubby was on a huge power play... turns out he is one of the good ones with a huge heart and adore's you so much...

Enjoy the BD'ing babe and make sure you and dan get to 'ing a egg or two!

[Anila]

Oh Bec our realationship is FAR from over, if you get ur bfp i will be there to support u through ur pregnancy and if u get a bfn, then we can do the tww journey all over again together.
And hey, i thought hubby was on a power play also, so no need for any sorrys.

[mountain mummy]

Oh Lisa, I'm so glad your DH is so supportive for you!! I'll be eagerly awaiting your announcement!! And yours too MissyMooMoo!!

[kawazuki]

well im back on the waiting game. AF reared her ugly head well atleast i think its her.

so we are back in the TTC game lisa..
atleast i have company now..

yeh we sat down and talked about it today, he said he doesnt want em to stress or work myself up over it. just keep a track of when its due and then when late we test..

he was a bit bummed that af came im upset but ok as i know it will happen when we are ready so now im gonna have a huge wait. 42 days sucks lol

[~Serenity~]

kellz im so sorry to hear that AF appeared my hubby doesnt quite now were going to be ttc next round so i may join you in the 2ww. i know it sux having such long cycles ive only had 3 AF since my ds and the first two were 1.5 months apart so i got on the pill which lasted a week coz of migraines so i got another AF a week later so i have no idea were i am in this cycle or when next one will start. but im here if you need to talk and i wish you all the best for next cycle even if we dont do the 2ww together

[kawazuki]

thanx for the support.

yeh my body is just playing up last year so hopefully 09 will be a betetr year for our bodies

[Anila]

Hugs kellz, are u sure it is af?
At least i wont be alone in the next tww.
Ok so next time keep me away from the hpt till i know im really late. lol.

[kawazuki]

will do we can test on the same day.. lol

i think it is.

[Anila]

I think one day i should go back and re read all the posts in this thread.

Well hubby is being really good about it all, he is looking forward to ttc this month.
So the title of this thread still stands..............just wanting to be utd again.

Now i want it even more than ever, why do we have this need.

[mountain mummy]

Hi ladies!

I think I am officially in the NTTNC category!!!!

Yesterday DP made a comment while the kids were playing (and DS2 was being rather rambunctious!) - he said "With the next one, can we tick the volume box?" He also commented later that he was having trouble remembering birthdates and then he said "And you want to confuse me with more??" LOL!

So yeah, we are not officially TTC but I don't think it would bother him if we did!!

I just don't know how long it will take, as I am still BFing and no AF, but exciting nonetheless to know that my childbearing days are not completely over yet!!