Oh hunney i dont know what he has said to you to make u feel so sad, but in laws do that some times, but its good that you have your mum to vent to, thats what i do.
so big hug to u.
At least you have us to vent to, and im just chatting you now on msn, so we can chat more personal. lol
Bec - big hun ... my IL's sh*t me heaps too - in the beginning they blatantly refused to acknowledge my existence (I already had 2 kids when I met DP) but as soon as DS2 was born, MIL wanted to be my best friend She still gets crabby that I won't talk to her on the phone, but we seriously have nothing to talk about! I have MADE DP stand up for me (if he knows what's good for him KWIM? ) I wish I could give your DF a good swift kick up the bum for not standing up for you!
Lisa - I found #3 to #4 a really easy transition too ... but I found #2 to #3 really hard (almost severe PND hard ) I almost couldn't cope - I was ringing DP every night in tears!! I have heard it said though, once you have 4 kids, it doesn't get any harder!
I would have a hard time giving up coke ... well, diet coke anyway - it's gotten me through so many months of morning sickness (non-stop with my last 3!!) but I really should try to fit more exercise in (I doubt walking from the laundry to the clothesline a couple of times a day really counts! )
Things are just really stressful atm, we have just bought our first house and are on the move next week so I hope things become a little less hectic once we are settled and school goes back!
mountain mummy, i also had postnd, with my first, i then got prend with my forth, and yeah, once you have 4 it does not matter how many more u have, u just have to remember to count heads when leaving the shops. lol.
well i caved in i brought another hpt.... done it at the shops on the way 2 work..su8spense was literally drivin me crazy....
its a
so i eventually told dp ... said that i have something to tell u and he guessed... all was said so far is that we gotta sell this place... nd the quiet awkwardness.. i went on did the usuall got kids ready for bed and stuff he did his own thing he was gettin ready 4 work... he hsnt yelled at me yet and gave me the whole story of how we r goin 2 afford it just that now he is thinking we need to sell,,,,
im in shock... its not feeling reall yet such a strange feelin...
all the best everyone hope we get more soon so im no alone
xx
Savina - congratulations! I'm sure your DP will be ok once the shock wears off!! (for some reason, men are always shocked by their partner's pregnancies!!)
Lisa - I'm already counting heads (and only 3 are walking so far!! LOL!)
I have just found your thread (well a few days ago but it took me a while to read all the posts!) and wondered if I could join in.
I have polycystic ovarian syndrome (pcos) and also hypothyroid so since I went off the pill (April 08) and we have been ttc (May 08) I have only had 2 cycles, first 16wks, second one I'm up to cd144. However, I seem to be in the middle of my first tww as well with 14dpo being Friday. I can't say its an official tww as I only have my FF chart to go off and not any BT, but I am still hopeful that it is my first ov.
I have been noticing lots of little twinges and aches and am itching to do another HPT, but DH keeps telling me not to. I did one on ov day not realising it was ov day and another at 7dpo (waaay too early I know) and am trying really hard to wait to 14dpo.
Anyway I'm sorry to post such a long message, but all you ladies seem so lovely and I just wanted to introduce myself and join in all the fun!
You are so very welcome to join us ladies "just wanting to be utd", so WELCOME mellybelly81, i am assuming that this is your first pregnancy that you are aiming for and i wish you and hubby all the best for getting a bfp and to carry that on to a happy and healthy pregnancy ending in a beautiful healthy baby.
All the ladies here are very lovely and welcoming, listening and giving advive as best we can.
You are being really good to wait till 14 dpo before you test, i am a poas addict, i just cant help my self. lol.
Hey mum-of-five and kellz, I'll be in on the good health plan too. I have lost 4 kgs in the last cpl of months and am aiming for another 16kg at least. Losing weight is supposed to help regulate my cycle and help with my PCOS so I won't be giving up.
Yay mellybelly on the 4k loss, my first day eating healthy to help ttc, did not go as it should, i skiped breaky, i had two pieces of orange for morning t, i had left over chineses for lunch, no arvo t, steak and veg with mashed potatoe for dinner, followed by lowfat ice cream with choc topping and some actual choclate, so as u can see a few good with lots a bad, i did how ever drink water and oj, i did not touch the coke, so thats something. I am way to scared to step on the scales as i know i have put on more weight since reaching my heaviest. I would be happy with 20 kilos, even a loss of 15k would be great.
There are so many bfps around at the moment, must be something in the air, hope it floats down my way soon.
well my healthy eating day went well. toast for breaky, sald for lunch dinenr was thai then i had an apple and plum for desert.
drank juice all day not enough water though.
hun ... my IL's sh*t me heaps too - in the beginning they blatantly refused to acknowledge my existence (I already had 2 kids when I met DP) but as soon as DS2 was born, MIL wanted to be my best friend
She still gets crabby that I won't talk to her on the phone, but we seriously have nothing to talk about! I have MADE DP stand up for me (if he knows what's good for him KWIM?
) I wish I could give your DF a good swift kick up the bum for not standing up for you!
) I almost couldn't cope - I was ringing DP every night in tears!! I have heard it said though, once you have 4 kids, it doesn't get any harder!
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so I hope things become a little less hectic once we are settled and school goes back!
(for some reason, men are always shocked by their partner's pregnancies!!)
just tell DP to stand up and be a man.lol
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