A big thank you to everyone who has given me their advice and knowledge on here. It's been extremely helpful

I've been a bit worried this month because last month my af went from a 31 day cycle to 34 day cycle and my due date for af has come and gone this month already so I'm waiting until Monday to see if I'll be on a 34 day cycle from now on. It has been such a weird couple of days I could have sworn I was going to get af like clockwork on the 31st day but absolutely nothing. All of my cycle changes has really made me worry that I'll be disadvantaged at falling pg now but from reading everyone's posts I don't think I should be too worried just yet.

I'm pretty sure that I O'd on either the 25th or 26th as I was definitely feeling pains and I haven't started bleeding yet so I guess that might make my luteal phase 17 days so far. That seems a bit long though... so maybe a little shorter than that...