this is probably more of a vent, but any advice or sharing your similar experiences would be fantastic!

I am currently on CD41 with no sign of AF (got a BFN tonight). My last cycle was 38 days, i feel like this cycle is never gonna end. I have always had irregular cycles but usually they are between 28 and 35 days long. Some people have suggested taking vitex to try and get my cycles more regular. It took 14 months to concieve Archie, which i know isn't a long time in the grand scheme of things but it felt like ofrever for us. We were booked in for fertility investigations but got BFP 2 weeks before the appointment, so ig uess ever since i have wondered whether or not we really did have fertility issues or if i was just too wound up over ttc that it took ages to fall pg.

Would love to hear about peoples experiences with long/irregular cycles, and what you did to help them.

thanks for taking the time to read this