tenar - I sympathise with you. DH and I had to time our bd carefully because my DH has low sperm morphology. On our successsful cycle for this bub we bd'd every 3 - 4 days until my fertile time (knew when I O'd because I chart & used opk's that month). During fertile time we bd'd every day from 2 days prior to O then 1 day after - so 4 days in a row. Because we had been ttc for quite a while romance flew out the window long ago so getting us both 'excited' on the same night has been a bit of a challenge. I guess we'll never know which swimmer from which night won the race. I personally have a really hard time trying to read my CM so I've never taken much notice of it & can't really comment on that part.

So I guess what I am trying to say is that I would persevere with DH on the meds and maybe just adjust your bd pattern. I read somewhere that bd every 3 days (approx) regardless of what stage of the cycle keeps the supply healthy & to bd on day before or day of O - that was the concept we based our successful cycle on. For us we've conceived (incl our two angel bubs) when we've bd'd on O day & +opk, never BFP from bd a few days before.... but that could just be my DH's swimmers. Not wanting to deflate you because your DH could have super strong healthy swimmers.

Hope that all makes sense. Good luck and I really hope you get a BFP soon.

Sending you bucket loads of