Hi Tommy girl,
Not sure how much help i'm going to be,but i am in the same dilemma as you. i have two other kids to my exhusband and now ttc## is seeming impossible.Trying to cover just the basics here,but we've been trying 4 months. With the other two i fell 1st month and 2nd month respectively.So i've got him on a mens multi,trying to get him to eat vegetables!! Smoke less(he's down to about 3 a night). Not have as much caffeine. Just 2 a day. Drink water.He hates water.Wear cotton boxers. He also takes epilim (precautionary)for epilepsy. Although this is not meant to effect sperm count. hope any of those ideas help. Goodluck,with ttc. Maybe we'll finally catch it this month.

Pauline