For us, I discovered in the 4 years between DD and DS that I just can't handle any type of hormone based contraception - it just wreaks havoc on my body, which doesn't leave us many options. We can't stand condoms, so the best idea for us was that DH would go get the snip when we have our quota of kids. I would, at this time, happily have two more, perhaps three, so we're just going with the flow. Talking of flows... has anyone become pregnant without getting their AF back after a previous pregnancy? Did it make a difference, or were there any issues? I could see that getting a reliable EDD might be a little more over the place...