bump...to Faithful Mumma did you POAS and were you UTD?

2 days late, have had spotting just before AF was due. I don't feel pregnant but the nagging thought is there. DH had a vasectomy in 2008 but I have been using hormonal contraception since then to reduce period pain but I came off it a couple of months ago. This of course could be the reason for the missing period. However my normally very low cervix is currently very high (barely reachable) and quite soft so again, the thought is there.

Ironically I recently asked DH to have his vasectomy reversed and when we talked about it we decided it was a bad idea and our family was complete. Only time will tell if the decision is in our hands or not I guess. He didn't ever get his sperm count checked :/