Before we conceived DD1 I actually bought a cot and change table from my friend who was going overseas to live. I felt really silly buying baby stuff but I knew that we were going to ttc in the following months and my friend needed to get rid of her baby stuff. Thankfully we conceived DD1 very easily and I had a perfect pregnancy. I then suffered 2 miscarriages when ttc DD2.

Now personally after going through 2 m/c's I would not buy anything!!! I guess I just could not stand having baby stuff around and no baby to put in it.