BekZ, your post has raised a very good point for us all! and has also prompted me to issue the following warning....

Ladies, if you DTD twice a year too, just like us, then BE AFRAID! Please make contraception your friend. If you don't, you may end up like me..with a number of children born VERY CLOSE TOGETHER..and breastfeeding them all...AT ONCE!!!



(I need to make jokes to avoid having a breakdown).

Thanks also to the very special people who pm'd me yesterday, which hopefully I'll be able to sit down and reply to tonight when the kids are in bed xx