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thread: Suspected Eptopic - I need some advice - Im so Scared!

  1. #19
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Melbourne
    502

    good luck for Monday,alana. Keep us updated.

  2. #20
    Registered User

    Aug 2004
    Hunter Valley, Wine Country, NSW
    3,006

    Thinking of you, I hope it`s good news on Monday.

  3. #21

    Jan 2008
    3,107

    Hey Alana

    How did everything go?

    Thinking of you *hugs*

  4. #22
    Registered User

    Oct 2005
    Cherry Tree Lane
    1,108

    alana posted in her other thread it was confirmed as an eptopic, she has been givin her options and is extremely sad.

    lets send her cyber hugs.

  5. #23

    Jan 2008
    3,107

    aww im so sorry alana *hugss*

  6. #24
    Lovenhope Guest

    So sorry Alana
    Thinking of you

  7. #25
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Melbourne
    502

    I'm sorry Alana Lots of Take care hun.

  8. #26
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Melbourne
    30

    Hey alana,

    Im very sorry to hear of your sad news. **BIG HUGS**

    **prayingforabub**

  9. #27

    Nov 2008
    Country Victoria
    397

    Hi Alana
    Sorry to read of your problems, I had very similar issues when i was 5 weeks pregnant with my bub. i had string pain in my right side for two days so i went to the emergency room and they did blood test to check my levels and sent me for an ultra sound the next day. They couldn't see anything from outside so they did an internal one, did they do that for you? on the internal one they could see a tiny gestational sac but no heartbeat this is apparantly normal and a mass in my right ovary (where i had pain) they told me to go back in two weeks for another scan and wait and see. I had another external ultrasound at 7 weeks and could see a little jellybean but not heartbeat so they had to an internal scan again they could see the heart beat then. I still had the cyst/mass in my ovary and some free fluid around my uterus. Two days after my scan i had some bleeding (brownish in colour) my dr said i probably ovulated from right side and there was some left behind, there was a name but i forget it and the bleed was my body getting rid of it. I had pain on and off the whole way through my pregnancy but delivered a healthy baby boy in April this year.
    I understand how scary waiting is especially waiting for blood test results, i've got my fingers crossed for you hope it all turns out okay.
    Kim

  10. #28

    Nov 2008
    Country Victoria
    397

    so sorry alana i didn't see the second page of posts when i started writing my reply i have only joined today i feel awful for writing my first reply, hope u are okay thinking of you
    Last edited by KimmyF; November 7th, 2008 at 03:16 PM.

  11. #29
    RachelACT Guest

    HI all

    I had an ectopic 10 yrs ago after taking the morning after pill (stupid me). I must have been only 5-6 wks along max when I found it began to get painful to stand up straight. I had barely any bleeding and a sense of lower abdominal heaviness and pain - I was actually haemorraging into my abdominal cavity by that stage. Next, the classic (excruciating!) referred shoulder pain set in and I was taken to emergency. The pain just spread after that.

    I was in surgery the next day where they sucked out the blood and hunted for the foetus. They believe it aborted itself from the tube. I spent a week in hospital with 110 stitches in my gut.

    I suppose these things may vary for everyone, but there's no way an ectopic creeps up on you. It comes fast and hard.

    All the best
    Rachel

  12. #30
    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2006
    Melb, Vic
    1,212

    Alanna,

    I am so sorry sweety.

    I had an ectopic in Dec 05. I was 9wks before it was detected. I was gutted and it took me a very long time to recover emotionally. Take care of yourself and know that we are here if you need to vent or ask questions or just chat.

    Lisa XX

  13. #31
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2007
    In my own little world!!!
    1,483

    Alanna

    So sorry to hear what you are going through.

    Like Lisa, I had an ectopic a few years ago...ruptured at 8.5 weeks...it is life changing and took me along time to get over the trauma of both losing our precious baby and nearly my life. Take care of yourself...we're all here for you xxx

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