Hi Ladies,

I need to ask if anyone has fallen UTD (with what would be a female child due to the timing,) 5 days before their fertile phase?

I had my last period on the 10th December with a 30-31 day cycle give or take variance between cycles. Darling BF and I DTD on the 17th Dec, and I didn't start becoming fertile until the weekend. (between 21-22nd).

I am possibly a week out from my next period, although the Essential baby Egg timer app has me due in 4 days. (Don't really think its 100% accurate but more of a guide than the rule.)
My CM is certainly not showing pre AF CM, by now its usually gone back to the tacky cottage cheese which is kind of a drier time. I still have egg white and little bits of whitish CM.

The last few days I have been feeling nausiated, especially within minutes of waking up this morning, and my boobs are so swollen and sore, just like I'm getting AF. It doesn't add up? I had such a bad tummy ache at lunch time, and couldn't 'go' in the bathroom. I thought 'man I really need some more fiber or drink more water'.

I keep putting it all down to the heat, as its been extremely hot and we all feel yuk with the heat, and just AF coming. I even went and bought 2 packs of pads today.

The thing I can't work out is why I still have egg white CM this late before AF, and wether or not if sperm can survive up to 5 days in the womans body, then longer once the fertile CM appears if its possible to still get UTD.

I am a little worried, as my Doctors have been weaning me off Sodium Valporate so we could baby dance without any tetragenic effects to the foetus. I was on 500mg twice daily, I am down to the last 200mg until the end of January then off it completely. I am meant to see my diabetic specialist in 4 months with good sugar control so we really weren't planning on it yet.

Has any one had a similar experience with a suprise daughter? I'm not being sex favourtist, it's just that the male sperm would have already died for sure in that space of time.

Thanks Heaps
June.