Sorry if this is TMI I know they say BD every 2nd day during your fertile period, but is this the norm? I have very long cycles (average 42 days now after metformin) and don't have much CM, so don't really know when I am fertile Trouble is trying to BD at the right time. This is putting a lot of pressure on DH and myself. It is really affecting our relationship - to the point that I am wondering if we will ever get pregnant or should I just come to terms with being childless forever? Quietly contemplating IUI (or even IVF). It sounds pathetic, but we just can't do the deed when we need to! We are missing the fertile time each month and this is draining me. Any thoughts? How is everyone else coping? Any suggestion will help. TIA.